How Can We Break The Cycle?

* First of all evaluate all the points that you find in a person that attracts you.
* Next go through all these points and try to see if you can modify them to find a different type of partner.
* Go and find that new partner

In order to break out of this endless cycle you will need to understand that falling for the same partner is largely a question of habit and it is in your best interests to change this. Your very first step is to list all the points that are attracting you to these same types. Once you have done this you will be able to see how many of these characteristics actually clash with your personality and often are focal points for augments and even break ups.

See which of these same points can be changed and form new criteria for your partner. You may need to radically rethink your game pan and even look in different places for your new relationship but it will be worth it.

As you get more mature, you will be able to judge others better. However some of us do have a problem with this no matter how old and wise we are. You may want a second opinion. You can get help from your parents or more often your friends. Now not all of your friends will b able to help as some of them may be experiencing the same problems. However some of them will. Try to seek out your friends who have lasting good relationships and ask their advice. They will be able to give you some good pointers.

Looking for your new partner may not be easy at first but you will enjoy the long-term success that it will bring. So get out of the rut and into a new path and you will see the difference in your relationships. It is only when you do this that you will be able to recognize the traits of a partner that you can have a long and lasting relationship with.